Help me save my uncle before it is too late...? - what happens when teenager drinks too much
So, my uncle, I am very satisfied with the proximity was or is a problem with alcohol and it takes me to see I Meen I love my uncle very much and am just soo scared of what happens to him. It was close to death several times. Last summer I had to see my heroes powerless unconcios cold face completely blue. paremedics death saved. but forget what we were and started beating me and my family did not know he has a drinking problem and I have the courage to tell him because he is very defensive and angry. I can not see that through. I have nightmares all the time died, my uncle and I'm paranoid. I wish I could save him. It goes through a bad time with the divorce, and he is bipolar and depression, a teenager was threatening to commit suicidebefore. I was 16 at Birthday, I was really drunk and he was crying and upset and everything. and gave him his Christmas present and began to cry and took a bottle of wine and must be strong and not cry because I do not make yourself feel worse, but I can not drive and sometimes it's so hard just to stupid things to overcome to do for me, and I do not know, it's like my best friend and I do not know what to do to cheer him up. My aunt said her sister showed how much we all love and care about him, and I do every day. He can not have children of their own, so I try to be like a daughter to him. But the idea makes me sick when I'm happy and sad I feel guilty and ughh help me please? All suggestions and contributionsWould be much appreciated, thank you!
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
What Happens When Teenager Drinks Too Much Help Me Save My Uncle Before It Is Too Late...?
6 comments:
Honey, you need to contact Al-Anon. You are what is called mediators - their actions and those of his family, his uncle's destructive path is to continue. You can not help you "Cheer Up" - it is the only one who can help themselves. Do not feel guilty to be happy - the disease has nothing to do with you. Please use the link below and help for you and your family.
This is your hero? Anon, and you need to know who is living his problem and has a conscious decision to be taken as a drunken man, aware of ... The answer lies with him and in him, and
Intervention A & E
If you can not beat them, join them.
He has more than he. You are doing the right thing by making it for him and love him. And the hardest part of all this, if not help, there is not much you can do. My father had the same kind of problems in the family and had to let go. He would later in life, even though the examples were. The love of Christ has the power to save someone, but we have reached the point where we realize that we need. That's how people change when they have to memorize them help and make a decision. Unfortunately you can not do for him
I understand that you are concerned about your uncle, but you can not go and be unhappy, just because it is. It is normal to be sad, but what are the emotions that everyone experiences. Your aunt is right to some extent. If you are, what they see as a mediator, who helps them. Try to hide it does not, their problems, because someone must be able to cope. An alcoholic is nothing other than a drug user. Both are dependent on and the only way to never be in a position that is left is the first to admit he has a problem. It's the biggest thing now. If you can admit that alcohol, that his time to the next step to see and a little help. He grew up with their part-time parents were alcoholics, makes me see things in all media as an adult. An alcoholic, it does not affect not only themselves but their families that are part of everyday life. If you want to encourage him to tell him that one day I would like a whole day with him, but without the alcohol, and only 2 of you. Then, pass, orthe day doing something you enjoy both. After grace, a day to what fun it is 2 do not drink together and remember and always had fun, and I would do it again another time. Okay, also crying, but they have not before him. Do this only if you have time for you. The last thing I can tell you to do is pray for him.
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